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    1 day ago

    As a parent of two I really enjoy talking about this. It’s such a complex, nuanced topic. Yeah you sacrifice a lot, sleep, time, sanity, but you kinda unlock a whole new level of your life, in your mind. I wouldn’t want to change it back, ever.
    Just yesterday I read about cultural neoteny. Our society is so safe, that people don’t have to mentally mature to full grown adults anymore. No famine, no war, no oppression, no violence to deal with (yet). We can stay teenagers forever, being unable to deal with criticism, lacking resilience, unwilling to take responsibilities, cultivating out sensitivities that then clash with other peoples sensitivity.
    Again, this is not the place for a long conversations, but I can’t help but feel that the constant joke “look at those stupid parents giving up their lifes” may be a part of that. There is some truth to it though. I am a little burned out, I may have dropped some life goals along the way. But then again, what’s the purpose of being alive?